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fluffypony
sgp_: that's a good idea, let me chat to the guys about it
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fluffypony
sgp_: ok they're going to do a write-up
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fluffypony
hopefully have something next week
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ErCiccione[m]
Nice
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sgp_
Nice
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SerHack
fluffypony: nice!
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sgp_
We need to have a talk
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sgp_
Some people are going to think it's relatively political, but I think it's not at its core. And the Monero Community Workgroup is here to try and improve the Monero community however it can
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sgp_
as some of you know, the Monero Community Workgroup has a Code of Conduct. Those participating in our discussions must essentially respect others and stay cool. this makes our meetings and activities more productive and better for all
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sgp_
sadly, Monero is sometimes associated with people and used by people who make significant attempts to spread hate. White supremacist groups sadly started accepting Monero a few years ago along with Bitcoin and other cryptocurrencies
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sgp_
These associations mean we sometimes need to take extra effort to explain why Monero is accepting. It's not necessarily good enough to stand by and say that "Monero is a neutral tool." The tool is neutral, but the community can still call people out, as we are quick to do with scammers and others
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sgp_
I bring this up because xmrhaelan recently posted a piece about black lives matter on the subreddit, which so far has only attracted downvotes and negative comments:
reddit.com/r/Monero/comments/h09vpc…ves_matter_and_the_monero_community
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monerobux
[REDDIT] Black Lives Matter and the Monero Community (self.Monero) | 0 points (32.0%) | 4 comments | Posted by xmrhaelan | Created at 2020-06-10 - 12:28:21
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sgp_
now, I think the wording and approach of this post is doomed to fail in this community sadly. it will only attract people who disagree, and they will be very vocal about it
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sgp_
however, that doesn't mean that these efforts are unnecessary in general, or that there isn't a more productive way to approach these
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sgp_
I think most people here think that the Monero community is accepting of them, but that's pretty irrelevant. We have a huge gender imbalance, worse than tech overall. I think it's likely we have a very small number of minorities, which tools like Monero are supposed to protect. Something should be improved
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dEBRUYNE
One has to ask though whether the reason of the imbalance is that Monero is unwelcoming to them or that they are simply not interested
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sgp_
It's not about filling quotas or whatever. It's about making sure the community is actually attractive to people different than us. It's about showing that we care.
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dEBRUYNE
And I am fairly certain it is the latter
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sgp_
well, WHY are they uninterested
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sgp_
we all think Monero is interesting obviously
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sgp_
how can the community and its messaging be more attractive to a more diverse audience?
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azy
be useful and ridiculously easy to use
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sgp_
I think there are two categories. 1) the wallets and use of the actual coin, and 2) the community and its workgroups
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azy
as long as it's not actually used for much of anything, and just potentially_useful_tech... you'll get a gang of nerds and speculators only
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sgp_
true, and I don't really see people actually using a volatile asset for purchases
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azy
back when i was interested in such things, lots of women used darknet markets as buyers and sellers. i dont think there's a tech/community barrier as such
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dsc_
sgp_: but... are you implying our community is currently not attractive to minorities?
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dsc_
What does that even mean? :P
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dsc_
And what would a solution be?
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sgp_
to some extent yes
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sgp_
if we have people on one extreme side posting racist content in r/MoneroMining and little else to balance it out, it's probably seen as unattractive
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sgp_
plus, it's not really up to us to decide whether the community we are in is attractive to outsiders or not. if they aren't joining, then it isn't
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dsc_
How can you tell they are not joining? Monero has a large subreddit, #moneor has 500 nicks (pretty high for freenode standards) - you don't know where those people are from, what age they are, etc
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sgp_
I don't really know very well, but based on the information I have (like YouTube views, Twitter account stats), it's not diverse
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azy
what are they going to do once in the community?
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sgp_
ideally enthusiastically join workgroups or start their own
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jwinterm
ccs for demographics surveying
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sgp_
install trackers on the getmonero website that require DNA samples /s
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jwinterm
as an aside, you can infer some demographics and interest from google trends
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azy
there are workgroups?
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jwinterm
within the US it is certainly more googled in whiter states
trends.google.com/trends/explore?q=monero&geo=US
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jwinterm
but if you look worldwide venezuela is near top over the past year
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jwinterm
in the past month jamaica and laos are in top 5
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azy
neat
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dsc_
GUI workgroup probably houses contributors from over 10 different countries
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dsc_
if not more ;)
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dsc_
such is often the case in open-source development
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azy
"I don't really see people actually using a volatile asset for purchases"
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azy
i hope thats not true, i see an opening for crypto here. the fees for doing business in dollars are often quite high
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Inge-
EVERYTHING is volatile these days. skeptics ask what value backs bitcoin. But these days, what value backs the S&P...
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sgp_
true but people don't transact in S&P either Inge-
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kinghat[m]
didnt we already do the distance from moneromining thing already?
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sgp_
nah that never really happened
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kinghat[m]
i guess i dont really know what was supposed to happen other than remove links?
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kinghat[m]
were there even links?
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kinghat[m]
wait, there was another sub started, correct?
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sgp_
the main mod is still there unfortunately and seems to use it occasionally for a pro-free-speech zone or whatever
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kinghat[m]
nobody wanted to mod it?
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sgp_
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sgp_
there is some holdup on the transition I don't really understand
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kinghat[m]
transition to r/MoneroMiner you mean?
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sgp_
yeah, since Reddit doesn't really allow for the removal of mods even for racist things
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kinghat[m]
looks like needmoney and m5m are the mods of that atm
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kinghat[m]
so the plan is to commandeer the old reddit or make our own? or both. is confused.
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sgp_
I reached out to my Reddit contact just now to see if there's another way, but it's not likely
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rehrar
Hmmm...so I'm going to give one reasoning as to why I think Monero isn't more palatable to minorities (particularly in race). Speaking as a minority. I also don't think it's something that can be changed on a Monero level.
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rehrar
Minorities are often else wealthy. Not all white people are wealthy but they are more likely to be so (speaking USA). Like it or not, Monero is a highly speculative asset.
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rehrar
When we do see minorities involved in Monero, they're usually of similar affluence to their white counterparts. I.e. more wealthy.
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rehrar
Monero, as it currently is existing as a highly speculative asset, is mostly a luxury for people. Luxury items are bought in larger quantities by those with disposabal income.
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rehrar
This can't be solved within Monero. We can't give them more disposable money. If it is to be solved, it must be solved via society.
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rehrar
We can make our wallets as easy as possible to use, and have the most welcoming community, but we are different than other FOSS projects, and just having a welcoming community won't bring people to us. We are different because we are money.
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rehrar
And money requires money.
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rehrar
The only exception is out of extreme need or desperation (like Venezuelans). This drives them to cryptocurrencies, but even this fits with my proposed model. In this case, cryptocurrencies are actually less speculative than their fiat.
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ErCiccione[m]
re moneromining: part of the problem is that we didn't manage to seriously take distance form that subreddit. Removing it from getmonero has very limited effect if people from this community keep posting there. If you use it, you legitimate it and that's what's happening
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ErCiccione[m]
i think there is just no interest in using a different subreddit.. and that's disappointing, but seems to be the case
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sgp_
rehrar: I agree on there being many factors that lead to it being adopted more by non-minorities
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sgp_
my overall point is that we often need to make concerted pushes to help get around those issues
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sgp_
and at the bare minimum acknowledge that those exist so that we can always be mindful of ways to improve
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rehrar
the ones that can be gotten around can be identified and worked on. One of my points is that there are some that we can't do anything about. That's not to say we do nothing on the ones we can, though.
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ErCiccione[m]
I agree the community should take a bigger effort in being more welcoming and less neutral. I would like to be optimist, but i remember how people tried to delegitimate my point of keeping distance from moneromining after the racist phrase. The discussion was longer than it should have been
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ErCiccione[m]
I disagree with rerhar's points. "We are different because we are money" it's not a point IMO. Because we are not, we are a community building money
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sgp_
When Monero was being adopted by criminals for mining, we put together mrw.getmonero.org
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sgp_
When a white supremacist starts accepting it, most of us just kinda hide
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sgp_
That's not good enough
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sgp_
That's why I think Monero's association with Bail Bloc is super cool
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ErCiccione[m]
yeah, people in general (not only in monero) don't give a shit and that's where you have white supremacists, sexists and other scams coming
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ErCiccione[m]
I would start with making clear that racists are not welcome in the monero community. If that's controversial for somebody, we have a problem
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sgp_
true, that's a basic CoC thing. Here are some examples of behavior that won't be tolerated here
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ErCiccione[m]
I haven't had the time to read the post about bail bloc tho, i'll do it today after dinner
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rehrar
this cannot be implemented ecosystem-wide
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rehrar
it must be done per workgroup
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sgp_
they've been doing this for a while, and it's a small contribution overall
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rehrar
and if some workgroups want to disavow other workgroups for not adding a CoC they are free to do so
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sgp_
rehrar: sure, each platform needs to implement. but it's our job to be annoying and make sure it happens :P
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sgp_
it's not specifically about the CoC, but the general terms of common CoCs need to be enforced
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rehrar
there will be staunch opposition, especially by those pro-freedom
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rehrar
what will be your game plan against those? remove them all from the website?
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sgp_
they can make a group about pro-freedom somewhere else
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sgp_
what about the r/monero sub is pro-freedom first?
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rehrar
perhaps their group already exists. They don't need to make a new one. You're coming in to try to change their thing.
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rehrar
This is the current case with -pools for example
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ErCiccione[m]
rehrar: Yes. if you don't take distance from racism with the excuse of "pro-freedom", you are just a disguised racist
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sgp_
pools is already covered by the Monero Core Team (by IRC registration). They're responsible for it imo
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sgp_
I think they technically have hidden super-admin or whatever over this channel too
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rehrar
As of yet, Core has not implemented a CoC type policy for things under their control.
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rehrar
That would be where to start if you wanted to see this change actually happen.
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sgp_
that's just one area. we also have Reddit and Telegram
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sgp_
and all the outreach potential, which I really want to help pursue with Bail Bloc
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rehrar
Sure. The point is convincing the leadership of the workgroups.
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ErCiccione[m]
Why should that be a problem?
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sgp_
if you don't know much about the bail system here in the US, learn about it. It's a huge issue for lower-SES individuals
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sgp_
this is actually a huge opportunity to show how Monero is being used by disadvantaged groups
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rehrar
ErCiccione[m]: it has been shown to be a problem already (i.e. pools and moneromining). There will be some workgroup leaders that disagree.
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ErCiccione[m]
If there is some "leader" disagree writing that they don't accept racists, i will have a big problem with them and i hope that people will just "fork away" from them
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> I am glad to see this discussion happening. It is important.
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ErCiccione[m]
sorry about the grammar of that last message
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rehrar
xmrhaelan ugh
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> ?
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rehrar
I'll be blunt, and I know you two will disagree with me, but I don't think the Monero community is the battleground for this. As an actual minority, I don't care to see our already scant resources overly-focused on solving problems that are scarcely present.
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sgp_
I don't see it as using up resources we already have or whatever. It's about being mindful of doing things different ways
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rehrar
When a problem arises, we deal with it with sensible moderation. But going on preemptive witch hunts isn't the way forward imo.
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selsta
+1
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sgp_
I don't see "don't post racist content" as a "preemptive witch hunt"
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Who is going on witch hunts?
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ErCiccione[m]
I do disagree 🙂 It's not about being a battleground, the world is the battleground, you only have to choose a side and something as simple as taking a stand over racism makes the difference. If you don't you are making life easier for racists and other sum
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ErCiccione[m]
*scum
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ErCiccione[m]
which hunt? seriously? man that's disappointing
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sgp_
the point is to work with the mods of the channels first. we shouldn't show up with "gotcha." the point is to get ahead of issues before they happen though, since people often aren't thinking of broader potential issues that come from certain types of moderation
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> The conversation around racism in our society is not going to disappear over night. The Monero shouldn’t be on the wrong side of history just because their community leaders chose to ignore racism
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rehrar
What's happening here is people with fundamental worldview differences are talking to each other. Under your guys' worldview, the only reason somebody would ever defend this or that is if they were this or that. But they aren't operating on the same worldview as you.
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sgp_
rehrar: I don't see it that way at all, and it's hard for me to agree
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Why is racism a political or worldview issue?
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ErCiccione[m]
rehrar: Why are you making such assumptions?
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» rehrar sigh
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sgp_
I get life is complicated. I'm gay and I've definitely done homophobic things before
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rehrar
xmrhaelan, 'wrong side of history' yeesh
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kinghat[m]
ErCiccione: equating people to racists because they dont actively denounce racism is pretty terrible logic. and equally terrible for any cooperation from assumed racists.
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rehrar
I understand the idea that 'complacency is equal to status quo and status quo is racist so complacency is racist'
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rehrar
but I think things are more nuanced than that
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ErCiccione[m]
kinghat: when did i say that? I'm saying that if you welcome racists to your channel, you are part of the problem. You are not racist maybe, but you are empowering racisms. I don't think that's better
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rehrar
and the issue comes when trying to view things with nuance gets denounced vehemently
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sgp_
rehrar: it is more nuanced than that, but it's expected that people do more than nothing if they can
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sgp_
basically it's all about actively looking for and mitigating cases where racism can occur, not in a rude way
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> In the field of anti-racist organizational change, one of the largest contributing factors to positive change is whether the organization’s leadership is on board and serving as an example for that change.
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rehrar
this organization
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rehrar
has no
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sgp_
the problem isn't about trying to be nuanced
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rehrar
leadership
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rehrar
our core team is not our leaders
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rehrar
they manage the CCS and the general fund
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rehrar
and do merges on code
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sgp_
the problem is seeing obvious oppression or whatever and then trying to mitigate it with "nuance"
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rehrar
I work for the guys
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rehrar
and they barely even do THAT
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> You can create policies (CoC) all you want, but unless leaders within a group support them with their actions nothing will happen.
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> This is a decentralized community full of leaders.
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Rehrar you are a leader whether or not you choose to admit it
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sgp_
xmrhaelan: to rehrar's point, I think some of the points you are making aren't considerate of the decentralized nature of the community. We are personalities that need to speak up, but the way you're talking about it is annoying rehrar
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rehrar
I'll be frank with you guys. What happened to George Floyd was so gut rending to me that I cut people out of my life because of their hideous comments about it. I not only support the protests, I support the rioting. I support the looting.
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kinghat[m]
most of the people here are faceless and nameless. nobody is talking about race.
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rehrar
tear down the system, abolish the police, and all that. I'm all for it.
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rehrar
But Monero is trying to accomplish similar goals via a different means.
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rehrar
It's trying to give a system for opting out of the current system
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rehrar
not changing the current system, but opting out of it
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rehrar
you'll find many in Monero are meritocracy people. Yes there are flaws, but in short, we don't know color of skin or gender or sexual preference when code or work is submitted, and we don't care to know
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Rehrar that was the exact sentiment of the article I wrote
monerooutreach.org/stories/the-tool-for-renewal.html
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rehrar
xmrhaelan, of course I'm a leader. I'm not a leader of an organization though.
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ErCiccione[m]
this discussion needs to be more practical. We all have different point of view, but i think (i HOPE) that nobody want to have racists around. LEt's just write that down somewhere, i think it's a good start, no?
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sgp_
rehrar: those principles are fine, I don't think anyone is arguing with them. but to get there, we need to make sure everyone *is* represented
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> ErCiccione yes
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rehrar
aight, well I'm just making my opinion known. You guys are free to institute whatever you want in the channels in which you control, and also free to try to convince others to do the same.
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Monero the coin should be agnostic. Monero the community should stand against racism. Sure that’s just an opinion, but why someone would argue that racism shouldn’t be called out is beyond me. A discussion is a start, and hopefully the discussion will lead to subtle changes in how forums are moderated. Hopefully those changes will make the community more diverse as time goes on.
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rehrar
Knowing people, you will meet resistance. Not necessarily because people are against saying 'no racism', but because people are against codification.
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ErCiccione[m]
rehrar: would you be against publicly stating that we don't accept racists in the channels?
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rehrar
If you're angry about this, then so be it.
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rehrar
I am against racism in channels that I control.
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ErCiccione[m]
good, let's write it down then
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sgp_
it already is here :)
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rehrar
'racism' not 'racists'
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rehrar
who are you to label someone?
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rehrar
and what have you done to not be given such a label
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ErCiccione[m]
eeehm. what?
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kinghat[m]
<ErCiccione[m] "rehrar: would you be against pub"> should we also list all of the other things we dont think monero represents?
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sgp_
let's just focus on "racist content" then
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ErCiccione[m]
ok i rephrase. rehrar: are you ok with writing down that racists are not welcome?
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rehrar
sure, but this becomes unenforceable to me.
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ErCiccione[m]
why?
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rehrar
as sgp_ said, he is gay, but sometimes does homophobic things out of habit of what we've been taught in our culture
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rehrar
I'm a PoC, according to current wokeness, it's nigh impossible for me to be racist cuz I don't have a position of power in our society
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rehrar
but I sometimes to racist things
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sgp_
point is to call out those things and to prevent them from happening when possible
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rehrar
*do
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rehrar
stopping words or action is possible
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rehrar
we can stop participation based on actions or words
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ErCiccione[m]
and the answer should be to let them be? I don't care if you are black, white, green or blue. If you are racists, you are not welcome
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rehrar
but when we label someone 'racist' and say they can't join at all because 'that's who they are' then I have a problem
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sgp_
that's mostly what it's about, I think ErCiccione[m]'s point is that we need to understand too that actions by people in other channels may "spill over" a bit by association
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rehrar
I would posit to say that you are racist to some degree
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rehrar
as am I
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rehrar
as are all of us
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rehrar
we are humans
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rehrar
we are tribalistic by nature
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rehrar
and no matter how much we like to think so, we have not 'transcended our evolution'
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rehrar
so if we were to codify 'no racists'
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rehrar
then that means I could not participate
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sgp_
sure, but that's an identification that's not really actionable
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ErCiccione[m]
come on man, that's just ridiculous
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rehrar
not because I'm actively racist against people
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rehrar
ErCiccione[m]: I mean this seriously, but no u
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rehrar
I think your position is ridiculous and unactionable
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sgp_
rehrar: focus on what's actionable please. everything taken to an extreme isn't very useful in practice
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ErCiccione[m]
we are just playing on definitions and words here, it's super annoying
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rehrar
'no racist content' is actionable
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rehrar
if there is racist content, we delete it and warn, mute, or ban the person
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rehrar
'no racists' is not actionable
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sgp_
but also if someone is known to post racist/offensive content elsewhere, they may be banned here too if it creates an unsafe/unattractive environment
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rehrar
the last thing to discuss is by what metric we constitute 'racism'
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rehrar
not everyone subscribes to current woke definitions
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sgp_
I agree with ErCiccione[m] that we need to focus on the main goals rather than get caught up in definitions. We aren't robots
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rehrar
-pools, for example, didn't see what they were doing as racist, and many of us did. How do you bridge this gap?
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sgp_
there's no full definition of "racism" that's all-encompassing because people come up with new ways of being racist all the time
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ErCiccione[m]
this discussion is sterile, i'm not going to playing with words and play around definitions
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rehrar
ErCiccione[m]: kthanksbai
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rehrar
assuming everyone has to be on your definitions is ludicrous
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sgp_
rehrar: you may disagree with ErCiccione[m], but I don't find your comments helpful or actionable either
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rehrar
that's the point of these discussions, isn't it sgp_?
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sgp_
not how you're doing it
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rehrar
if we're going to go down the route of enforcing 'no racism' then we need to define racism otherwise it becomes nebulous.
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kinghat[m]
dont we already list how people should act in these areas that are moderated?
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sgp_
you're dismissing (perhaps unintentionally) an important conversation by making it all about a specific thing where you two probably agree anyways
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rehrar
some people will complain if something is enforced, and some people will complain if something isn't enforced. You need to point to a definitive definition of how enforcement is handled.
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sgp_
do you define every single thing you do?
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sgp_
do you adjust your understanding of what's offensive over time?
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sgp_
do you learn more perspectives and change your mind?
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ErCiccione[m]
let's make an essay about what racism actually is from the dawn of time, that's the best way to create a welcoming policy
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rehrar
sgp_: it's actually hilarious how the white people in the room are talking over literally the only PoC in this conversation
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kinghat[m]
😂
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sgp_
you were also against a CoC here iirc
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rehrar
I was. Because I don't give words power. But I said that I'd support you if you did it, and you did, and I have.
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rehrar
Gone to bat multiple times for you in this regard from naysayers.
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sgp_
would you agree that it's helped the channel to remove bad actors more quickly?
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rehrar
and it's not just that 'sgp can do what he wants in his channels', it's that 'sgp is doing what he thinks is wise to make a welcoming community for everyone in a channel he controls. This is an admirable goal and I support it.'
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rehrar
sgp_: I think every action taken so far could have been done without a CoC (albeit there would probably be more aftermath complaining from free speech scrubs)
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sgp_
right, it's not about the CoC specifically. It's just a signal to show what types of content aren't tolerated. The CoC itself doesn't ban people
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rehrar
the CoC is implemented for justification purposes so you don't have to do ad nauseum explaining
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rehrar
but people whine and complain anyways, so you end up having to do some of it regardless :P
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sgp_
yes indeed
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sgp_
but the CoC doesn't define terms either
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kinghat[m]
wait, so we already have a functioning CoC?
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sgp_
they're open for interpretation
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rehrar
kinghat[m]: for the #monero-community channel and workgroup, yes
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sgp_
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dsc_
docx... oof :P
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rehrar
look, Justin, let me explain to you one of my big fears
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ErCiccione[m]
is that coc posted somewhere?
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sgp_
I think on r/MoneroCommunity, but if not I'll post it
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sgp_
we can also add it to communityworkgroup.org
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kinghat[m]
whats the problem then? its not working?
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sgp_
no, just that I'm always interested in trying to do more for the Monero community to make it approachable and fair
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rehrar
my big fear is that similar to -community wanting to distance itself from -pools, and then going a step further and saying the whole ecosystem should distance themselves from -pools, I'm afraid that if/when -community, spearheading this project of inclusiveness, meets the INEVITABLE resistance from other workgroups, especially those more freedom-oriented, that it will similarly denounce those groups and want
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rehrar
them taken off as well
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ErCiccione[m]
yeah, should be somewhere. I ididn't even know existed
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sgp_
ErCiccione[m]: sure, let me add it to the website
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rehrar
the end result will be two factions of the Monero community. The 'Wokes' and the 'Frees'.
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sgp_
that's somewhat happened with r/bitcoin and r/btc, but that was for more than just racism
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rehrar
yep
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rehrar
and we will be the same thing
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sgp_
as far as I can tell, they didn't split because of censorship of hateful content though
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rehrar
if you guys really can't fathom the idea of working with anyone who has an inkling of racism in them, then I don't want to convince you to do so. But I, for one, can work with people that disagree with me. Even if they maliciously call me beaner, wetback, 'go back to Mexico' blah blah blah. I don't care.
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selsta
FWIW I think since the last time we talked about -pools it has improved a lot.
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dEBRUYNE
The r/bitcoin and r/btc fraction has nothing to do with racism
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kinghat[m]
lubs rehrar 🤗
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sgp_
some people don't want to volunteer in an environment that has casual racism/sexistm/etc
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sgp_
some = many
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dEBRUYNE
r/btc was initially created as a place to discuss the block size issue without any censorship
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kinghat[m]
whats casual racism?
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dEBRUYNE
It later kind of devolved into a sub for BCH
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rehrar
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rehrar
read this
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rehrar
I will quote the article directly.
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sgp_
kinghat[m]: is that a serious question?
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rehrar
This deals with the pseudo org Anonymous, but much of -pools (and Monero at large) is birthed from this culture.
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rehrar
The context is speaking about the rough edges of /b/ from 4chan, the Anonymous birthplace
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rehrar
"In this, it has a kind of innocence and purity. Terms like 'nigger' and 'faggot' are common, but not there because of racism and bigotry - though racism and bigotry are easily found there. Their use is there to keep you out. These words are heads on pikes warning you that further in it gets much worse, and it does."
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kinghat[m]
🤷♂️ i thought so.
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rehrar
Like it or not, much of cryptocurrency culture was, is, and will be steeped in this as well. It's one of the birthing places of cypherpunk ideals, and one of its chief flag carriers today.
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rehrar
This may be unacceptable to you. The fact that they use these words, in what they deem an unracist way, but you deem racist shows that there is a fundamental difference in worldview and what constitutes racism.
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rehrar
So yes, definitions are important. Because enforcement will be done from one point of view of racism.
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rehrar
Anyone upset about quibbles of definitions becomes dictatorial. "Shouldn't it be obvious? It's what me and my friends consider racism. If you disagree that that's what constitutes racism, then you're a terrible person and/or a racist."
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sgp_
isn't this all the more reason why we need to be aware that certain groups may be put off by or hesitant to participate? Why elect to adopt a financial system made by people with often hateful comments towards you?
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rehrar
The dollar is made by people hostile and hateful to me.
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sgp_
we shouldn't make the barrier to entry having tough skin
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rehrar
I use it because it's money.
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rehrar
I know Monero is different. We don't have mandatory adoption.
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rehrar
Whatever, I think I'm done with this discussion. As I said earlier, I'm just afraid this will fracture the community.
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rehrar
Some will say "Good. It's about time we called this stuff out, even if there are sacrifices in doing so."
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rehrar
If that's you, more power to you. You're doing what you think is right.
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kinghat[m]
if we are talking about banning people for shit they do you have to be specific. you cant just vaguely ban people because the banhammer woke up on the wrong side of the bed that day.
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sgp_
I only ask that you accept some ambiguity in adopting some of these policies, that not literally everything needs to be defined in advance
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rehrar
But I am also doing what I think is right by voicing my concerns and objections. And if doing so makes me a 'bad person' in your eyes, so be it. Your moral high ground is not automatically higher than mine just because you think it is. ;)
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rehrar
sgp_: I'm not talking so much about you, man.
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rehrar
I disagree with you somewhat often, but I support what you do and the reasons for which you do it.
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rehrar
And I truly hope that me voicing my concerns just makes you think of another side that isn't evil, but also isn't approving of some steps you might take. I'm just making you aware of these viewpoints.
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sgp_
have you been a part of a community that fractured like this?
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kinghat[m]
im around here a lot and i dont really see anything of the sort happening in the areas where the current CoC is applied.
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sgp_
over some people trying to remove racism of whatever
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sgp_
*or
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rehrar
sgp_: the sad thing is I'm going through it right now
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selsta
I have seen a lot of open source projects split because of this CoC discussion.
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rehrar
as I alluded to earlier in this conversation, the George Floyd protests really made me cut off a lot of people from my life. Their comments in support of what happened or the police was to disgusting, and I cut off many old friends.
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rehrar
There is a small amount of mourning, but I have my own life these days. :) So I'm fine.
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rehrar
*too disgusting
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rehrar
Those that were willing to at least talk or reason with me, I was willing to engage and not cut from my life.
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rehrar
I don't care about anybody's opinions on my personal decisions btw :D
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rehrar
but I was willing to let my irl community fracture, because I have the irl resources to manage it
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rehrar
Monero does not have these resources
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rehrar
a fracture would greatly hamper movement
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sgp_
I see it more as calling out some personalities that should have been called out earlier, and they are now gone from the Monero community. We've moved on
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> I don’t think CoCs need to be changed and I don’t think mods need to pull out hammers. I think people who are active in forums should just police their own and not remain silent when they see comments that are hateful or inappropriate
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rehrar
and in such a time when so many exiciting things are on the horizon (like Arcturus), I think it's silly that we're taking this conversation to the extent that we are when we haven't even dealt with this very much at all
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> At the very least, a conversation is happening and if it ends here, I’m fine with that.
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rehrar
xmrhaelan, once again, people operate under differing definitions of hateful or inappropriate. If we're going to optimize for the weakest skin people, then that needs to be made clear.
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rehrar
If someone called me a wetback, and someone else jumped in saying not to do that, I wouldn't be grateful. I'm a grown man. I don't give a shit what this guy says or what he thinks.
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rehrar
I could appreciate the sentiment, but I'm not a child.
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rehrar
"but what about the other Mexicans in the room that aren't as strong as you?"
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sgp_
however if someone posted homophobic content and it was upvoted, and those calling it out were downvoted, I would be very disappointed in the community personally. maybe this means I have "weaker skin"
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rehrar
such is life. people are different.
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kinghat[m]
none of this is even happening..
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rehrar
If we want to be completely inclusive, we need to optimize for the most theoretical weakest skin there is
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> I agree with Rehrar this shouldn’t distract from big Monero developments. I also don’t think it has and I don’t think it will:
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intj440_
+1 to pretty much everything rehrar has taken the time to explain above
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rehrar
kinghat[m]: that's the clincher isn't it?
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> One Reddit post with zero upvotes and a handful of people discussing on IRC is hardly a distraction...
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rehrar
we can make a million hypotheticals: "What if someone comes in here and insults gays, blacks, and says they're going to dox us all and kill us because of our differences????"
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rehrar
xmrhaelan, certainly taking my time
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rehrar
several people message me saying they'd rather not get involved, but disagree. They won't get involved cuz they'll get angry or distracted.
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rehrar
If only the 'wokes' speak, then only their voices are heard. So I speak on behalf of those that aren't (and myself).
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rehrar
And no, I'm not afraid of being 'cancelled' for it. :)
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sgp_
"If we want to be completely inclusive, we need to optimize for the most theoretical weakest skin there is" this is important, but I don't think it's as crazy as you think. It's about calling out behaviors as they happen, not literally stopping all discussion. In practice people don't actually get insulted by everything
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Well I suspect this conversation will fade within 24-48 hours. I am glad it happened.
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sgp_
I see that as a sort of slippery slope fallacy
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sgp_
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> If the leaders in here just made an informal agreement that racism is bad and if we see it we should speak up, that’s a win in my book
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rehrar
xmrhaelan under your definition of racism?
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rehrar
you keep dodging that point
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rehrar
as if we all agreed as to what it means
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rehrar
and it being unthinkable that someone else has a different viewpoint or definition
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sgp_
rehrar: I don't understand what types of comments you are looking for. Surely you don't have a magical understanding of every possible scope of racist comment
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rehrar
no, I don't and that's the point. None of us do.
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> From the dictionary: a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human racial groups determine cultural or individual achievement, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to dominate others or that a particular racial group is inferior to the others.
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niocbrrrrrr
I hang out in pools and it sometimes does become an echo chamber so I will make a comment not so much at a person but instead stating a view in a way to illuminate things. Undoing one's own incorrect worldview is not a simple process.
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Anti-racist practitioners take the definition a step further and say that racism = prejudice + power. So, we can just agree to shun all prejudice when we see it, or go with the dictionary definition.
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sgp_
in practice mods will use judgement to enforce, and if you disagree, then talk about it
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rehrar
^
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rehrar
this simple
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rehrar
this happens without a CoC also btw
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Dictionary definition of prejudice: unreasonable feelings, opinions, or attitudes, especially of a hostile nature, regarding an ethnic, racial, social, or religious group.
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sgp_
right, which is why I don't understand the importance of these definitions lol
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Niocbrrrrrr good strategy
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rehrar
the word 'unreasonable' doing a lot of heavy lifting there
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Sure is
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sgp_
our understanding shifts all the time
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> My opinion is small here, but I’ll just leave it with saying I don’t think CoC changes or enforcement are necessary. I think we just need to be awesome to each other and call out assholes who aren’t.
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sgp_
it's about making sure the Monero community fits/exceeds a changing reasonable definition. "reasonable" is an undefined word, but it's the best we got, and it's used in legal agreements all the time
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kinghat[m]
has anything changed, though? is something not working with the current setup? i dont get it 🤷♂️
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rehrar
well, do as you do. I will continue supporting your leadership of the Community workgroup and the code of conduct you've implemented for it
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kinghat[m]
are you saying we need to make a post for everyone to come check out are CoC?
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rehrar
it's a good experiment for all of the other workgroups that don't have one, and I think the experiment has shown that it's no the end of the world, mostly by way of it doesn't matter too much
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rehrar
I appreciate the work you do in wanting everyone to feel welcome here, Justin.
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kinghat[m]
* are you saying we need to make a post for everyone to come check out our CoC?
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ErCiccione[m]
There is no need to ask each other "what racism actually is?" the same way we don't do it for all the other bannable offences. That's up to the mod, i don't understand why this discussion is happening for this specific case. Just say we don't want racist comment as we don't want insults. That's it. I think nobody would say "yes, but what insult actually means?". same thing.
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rehrar
I see your heart in this. What you're really trying to accomplish. And I commend your work.
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> I appreciate all of you.
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kinghat[m]
i dont do anything here other than offer push back where i see its needed and bitch from time to time so i guess my job is done. time for a workout. ✌︎ all!
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sgp_
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midipoet
interesting discussion
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midipoet
for the record, I thought the outreach document was in bad taste
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midipoet
not because the issue isn't important (it is), but because the issue was being used as a platform for communicating some overt message regarding what Monero is/does/could be.
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sgp_
I stressed that on Reddit as it was posted too. It's a difficult line to walk, and I don't claim to have the answers
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midipoet
it's not really that difficult. Monero keeps doing what it does, while the community try and ensure we remain welcoming and receptive to all (which i think we do anyway). There is no marketing message needed. If we want to make overt efforts to make the community more "representative", we should do that at a local level, rather than through some defined "minority" protocol or "marketing message". I do wonder
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midipoet
sometimes why there are very few women in the community, for example. There was that issue with the article I remember, making a big deal out of a woman working with/on Monero
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Midipoet that article was written by a woman, about a woman. We were just a platform to share it because they were both interested in Monero.
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xmrmatterbridge
<xmrhaelan> Part of outreach involves responding to social and cultural cues outside of our niche group. You guys don’t have to agree with all of our methods but I hope you can appreciate the hard work we do for Monero
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sgp_
I won't go so far to say additional media is REQUIRED, but it is appreciated and should be sought out whenever possible imo
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midipoet
of course I respect the work put in, that isn't what this is about. It's about what sort of "marketing" the community wants. outbound comms is something I think should be very light touch, mainly due to the decentralisation we talk of. Having a "Monero voice" seems antithetical to what Monero is actually about. That's my own personal view, however. Having said that, the race issue is extremely complex and
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midipoet
nuanced, and I didn't think was the place to discuss the merits of Monero over Bitcoin, or about what Chainanalysis said, or even about what Satoshi said. If someone wanted to write about racism and societal issues, then just write about those issues. Using the issue as a platform for a "Monero message" just looked like opportunism to me. For example, insert ZCash instead of Monero into that article, what
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midipoet
would "we" have thought then?
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sgp_
it's bigger than just what "Monero" wants. Monero Talk, the Monero Coffee Chats, etc. are important outward-facing tools, even if it's not their only purpose
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midipoet
sure. but if I saw a Monero Talk episode that discussed how Monero could help those suffering from racism and structural bias, I would also think it was a bit off the mark.
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dsc_
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dsc_
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kinghat[m]
thats something
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dsc_
ikr
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kinghat[m]
this is how you view the www?
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dsc_
yeah gonna try it out for a while
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kinghat[m]
i wish you luck
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dsc_
thank you!